Waiting for answer

Why and why not? Have or have not? And accept or not? Who knows? Almost nobody! Why? You know it well, don’t you? NO! Because everyone discusses it from his point of view and nobody tries to have good reasons. They say it's obligation but they do not mention the way it should be. They say that God has determined it for women and there's no other way, but they've forgotten to say that God has even ordered men to have it as well, They say it's very good, but they've never mentioned that this way of Hijab helps women work and go out of their home more sound and safe in front of the un-Hijabed eyes of men, Even they have turned it upside down and they say that a Hijabed woman must stay at home in order to keep her Hijab. Why? Nobody knows!!! Asking from different girls and boys , you will understand that always there is something in their ego that makes them cover up themselves in front of strangers, even they concern the way they dress in different places, one of them told that she is even shameful to show her arms in a mixed party….and the other said that she can't bear a man gazing at her all the time ( even he is her cousin)
All of these words help us understand something:
The rules of God are equal for both men and women but not similar. If God has made women to cover their body from strangers , He has ordered men to be careful about their eyes, and it’s considered as Hijab for men. So both men and women must have Hijab but in different way.
Also it’s worthy to mention that if someone wants to show the kindness of Deity to people, he or she should not force people to obey the rules, but instead s/he must remind them the philosophy or the ideology behind such rules. If such work’s done, then there remains no need to oblige people to obey, and on the contrary, people themselves will go toward the rules and they will enjoy obeying instead of hating.
At the end, I should remind that God loves all of His creatures, He knows them well so He asks them to do something which is advantageous for them. If we want to have a good life we have to obey His rules.